Rebuilding Attraction

If you've ever caught yourself wondering where the spark went in your relationship, you're not alone. Many couples experience changes in attraction over time, and contrary to popular belief, this is completely normal. The butterflies and intense attraction you felt at the beginning weren't meant to last forever - but that doesn't mean you can't create something even better. In fact, research shows that couples who understand how attraction works can build an even deeper and more sustainable connection than what they experienced in the honeymoon phase.

Before we dive in, let's clear up some common misconceptions:

• Attraction is not the same as sexual tension (which we'll cover in a different lesson)